Here are my six things that make a person irresistible. As you might expect, these things are relative to the beholder — this is about humans, after all. In no particular order, they are:
Beauty
You may first leap to physical attractiveness, but that is only one of several factors that make someone attractive.
Intelligence
From which springs humor, curiosity, wonder, and so much more.
Kindness
Be honest. If you are hanging around people who are not kind, you do it for some other reason than just wanting to be there.
Authenticity
The strength to be yourself in all situations. Real regardless of who is watching.
Sensuality
To know your body and its relationship to the bodies around you — this is essential. I am not yet convinced that this can be learned. It seems to me that you either get this or you don’t.
Energy
I struggled with the name of this, adding it later after much thought. It is the best moniker I could give to your motive force, your drive, your direction, your purpose… the quality of being a non-stump.
P.S. After surfing through a gaggle of images for one of my favorite actresses, I settled on this one where Grace Heart (Sandra Bullock) is totally being herself before the big makeover that transforms her into a pageant contestant.
One out of six ain’t bad for me… I’ll let you figure out which one it is… of course, you know which ones it ain’t.. 🙂
BTW, for some strange reason, I think girls who drink beer are a turn on [if I could just remember what that term meant] 🙂